MISTAKES WOMEN DO....

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The 3 Big Mistakes Most Women Make
That Prevent Them From Getting Their
Dream Man…
So many of us become “lost” the moment
we fall for a man. Immediately he becomes
the center of our world. But the moment
we even THINK about a man as the “center
of our world,” his feelings of attraction for
us go away. It may feel good to his ego…
but it does nothing inside his heart. What
makes a man go crazy for a woman is the
fact that he might lose her.
Mistake #1 - Chasing HIM
You chase him by calling him first, texting
him all the time, asking where he was and
why he didn’t call, offering to make him
dinner when he hasn’t asked you first,
talking about your future together or the
fact that you’re a couple when he hasn’t
expressed that himself… etc. It’s about
GIVING without getting much back.
When you “chase” a man, he’ll back away
even further. Even if you’re only thinking
about chasing him. It doesn’t matter. The
vibe is out there, and he feels it.
Mistake #2 - Becoming Exclusive Too Soon
We’ve been taught that the way to go in
love is to get a man to commit to us
exclusively as quickly as possible.
The TRUTH is that demanding, expecting,
and yes, even wanting “exclusivity” with a
man too soon is ademonstration of
weakness to him.
“How could that be?” you ask… It’s like
this:
When a man senses that you’re willing to
fully invest yourself in a relationship with
him BEFORE he’s ready to commit, it
lowers your “Degree of Difficulty” (how
hard you are to “get” and his perception of
your worth) practically down to zero.
Mistake #3 - Not Dating At All Or “Dating
And Hating It”
It’s easy to start feeling that no men
measure up to your standards. Or to be
afraid of losing the one man you want by
dating other men. So you don’t date.
Instead, you focus on getting that one man
BACK.
When you narrow down your options like
this, you’re giving up your freedom for no
reason and missing out on meeting Mr.
Right.

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