reasons why women cheat

By nairobi post

Revenge
A lot of women who cheat are getting
revenge on their partners, after being
seriously hurt. Affairs can do a lot of
damage, but instead of crying with their
friends, women are finding a single hot
man and showing him exactly how much
it hurts to know your partner has cheated
on you. Not clever, really, but
understandable...there is only so much
yelling can achieve, and the hurt is
intense. It can easily block rational
thought, and even someone who knows
two wrongs can’t make a right could be
tempted into pay-back.
2. It's boring in the bedroom
Men aren't the only ones who need to
spice things up. "Women need to feel
desired!". If she is not getting any,
enough, or nothing to talk about, women
start to feel a sexual void.
3. Feeling neglected
Feeling completely neglected is another
common cause of affairs. Women just
can’t put up with not having any
attention, and if they aren’t getting it at
home, they’ll get it from men outside.
But one thing can lead to another, and
being exposed to flattery which is so rare
can make it so much easier for a charming
womanizer to talk his way into her bed.
Well, I don’t know if it’ll get results, and
I’d recommend a talk over a fling any day,
but this is understandable too. Don’t
stand for being neglected!
4. Jealousy
Have you ever been with a man who is so
damn sexy that no woman can help
herself near him? Whether it’s a
suggestive smile or sending him a drink,
he never seems to be able to escape the
admiring crowds, and it can make you feel
insecure, especially if you are feeling like
an average Jane next to him, which is why
women with gorgeous husbands boost
their confidence by getting another man
into bed. It shows they are a head-turner
too, and makes them feel much more
confident but remember, it could leave
your relationship in tatters, and it won’t
fix the jealousy issue.
5. Feeling a relationship ending
"When a woman feels that uneasy sense
that a relationship is on the outs, by
either her doing or his, she will often look
to fill the void externally to soften the
blow,". "If she is the one considering the
breakup, she may be using this tactic as a
challenge to herself both testing the
waters, and then gauge if she can go
through with it."
6. Replacement
A surprising number of women admitted
to cheating to find their next partner so
they wouldn’t be single when they left
their current partner. Shocked? I was!
After all, cheating on your partner can’t
make you attractive to potential
boyfriends, right? Well, it seems to be
happening more and more. I can’t really
get my head around this one. If you want
to leave, go, and if replacing him with a
new man fast is important, throw yourself
into blind dates, speed dating and nights
out. But be honest!
7. Change
Change can cause a women to seek an
affair. From the obvious, such as having a
baby, to simple things such as moving
house, an affair will make her feel sexy
and attractive and give her life some
substance....until it ends that is. Grab a
babysitter, book a night out and make a
real effort for your partner. Try a wig and
new name. Create the same effect, but
involve your Mr. Right, or you could lose
him!

8. Warning
Some women cheat as a last warning to
their man, particularly if they are refusing
to do something, or make a change. It’s
almost a childish “If you don’t do what I
want, I’ll leave” action, but most of the
time, it’s out of desperation rather than
spite. Talk to him instead, tell him how
you feel, and that you are about to give
up. Communication is key for a successful
relationship. Evaluate his reaction...if he
doesn’t care, leave.
9. Unhappiness
For men, sex is a vital part of
relationships. Women understand this. I
mean, some of us find sex vital too but
even if we don’t, we know that men need
it. So when we aren’t having it, we know
something is up. The survey found that
women whose sex lives had dwindled felt
like their partners didn’t love them
anymore, or find them sexually attractive.
Cue finding a man who does, and seeking
comfort in his arms.
Relationship tips by Kati Blake

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