LOVE MATTERS KENYA:WHAT KENYAN MEN SHOULD KNOW FIRST,LADIES

She was ambitious when you first met her.
She told you everything she wanted to
become. She told you how poor her family
is and her dream to make it in life. You
loved her and married her promising her
heaven and earth. She believed and
trusted you. You convinced her to have a
baby first and then go back to school or
pursuing her career. Now she has given
you babies but you still keep her at home.
You go out everyday and come home
calling her useless. She asks for money to
buy her cream only for you to tell her that
her mates are out there making money
while all she knows is how to waste it. You
don't give her money to take care of
herself but you go out there and buy lovely
cars and clothes for yourself. You even
have the gut to give your secretary a
market list for her to go and buy things for
your wife to cook; a big insult to any
woman. Even when you allow her to go to
the market, you make sure there is no coin
left for her to buy a panty for herself. You
go out there and admire all the beautiful
women whose husbands have given
freedom and those whose husbands love
spending on. You even lift their skirts to
see their panties and then you begin to
feel that your own wife at home is dirty.
Sir, she is not dirty; she is only wearing the
rags you give her. At every slightest thing,
you remind her how poor her people are
and how her father couldn't send her to
school. Several times have you shattered
her already broken spirit with your words.
Oga, you knew that her family is poor and
yet you walked into that humble family to
pick a wife. Are you telling me your reason
for marrying her is to make her poorer?
You even stopped her from inviting her
parents to your house all because you
think you are god. If after you married that
poor girl, her family does not move to a
higher level because of you, know that God
is not happy with you. You may not even
know if you are prospering because of her
presence in your life. Several times has
she talked to you reminding you of your
promise to her and all you do is shout at
her. You call her useless and yet you don't
want to give her the opportunity to prove
to you that she is not useless. You stopped
her from acquiring the certificate she so
dreamed of. You force her, against her own
wish, to be a full time housewife. You go
through magazines admiring great women
and wishing to have one like them
forgetting that a man like you is
somewhere giving them the support and
strength to soar. You love good things on
women but can't stand seeing them on
your own wife. Don't you think you are a
wicked man?
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