What girls ask in a relationships

Hope you will find this helpful.
I have observed that 90% of ladies hardly
ask their
love partner questions that matters and
determines their stand in a
relationship,may
be
they don't really know what to ask or
scared
to ask.
That's why i have brought you this few
questions to
ask a guy in a relationship.
1. What are his personal goals cos most
times,women get in the way of a
man's personal goals. truth
is, not all of his goals involve you as they
were
formed long before you
came on board so when you this you will
know
what aspect you fit in and the ones to
work
on.
2. What his childhood life was
like cos it holds the key to understanding
why he is
the way he is,is either on the positive or
negative
side.
3. What are his Insecurities,like things
that
can
make him so uncomfortable.
Discuss and find out early before it pops
up
in
future.
4. What career path he is interested in. it
helps
prepare your mind for long
trips away from home,close with the
family
or even
staying or working late.
5. What are his expectations
in the relationship. This will help you to
work
on
yourself and not just loving and counting
months
and years of togetherness.
6. What he cant stand. most
relationships fail because the
lady spent the whole time doing what the
guy hates
and some guys won't talk but just
enduring
it till he
can't anymore and you know what that
means.
7. What his past relationship was like. if
he
has
moved on or he is still carrying the
baggage
from
the bad experience cos that do affect
relationships
most times. If he is still in the old pain try
and
ask
to know how to help and not to say
whatever.
8. His views on spirituality.
Religion matters to some while it doesnt
to
some
others. it is important to
find out if you will accept them into your
life
with
the
beliefs they have or it won't work for
you.
Though
sometimes,guys hide this.
9.what he expects from his patner,like
acts
that
encourage him or things that pleases him
10.His Relationship with his family and
friends
because they
all contributed to shaping him to who he
is
today
and sometimes
would be a major factor in how he will
treat
you
and his own family wen time comes.
I know their are some guys that don't like
responding to anything that has to do
with
seriousness. If you are in of such
relationship,re
consider your stand.

Category: love and relationships , love Stories