LETTER TO THE MEN...
Why flirt with other girls,
when you got your girl to flirt with?
Why go on a date with other girls
when you got your own girl to take
out?
Why tell another girl you miss her
when you should be telling the one
you already know misses you back.
Why text all these other girls when
you have someone who cant wait to
hear from you?
Why try so hard to get inside
another girls pants when you
already have a girl who cares
enough to do it with you?
Why make another girl fall for you
when you already have a girl who's
stuck in love with you?
I guess what I'm trying to ask is why
be with a girl if you know you dont
have a future with her?
if you are not planning to be with
her for long, why drag her into a r/
ship??
Because its sh*t like this that really
messes up a girls mind!!
NEVER BE THE REASON OF A
WOMAN'S TEARS.
HOW TO TELL A MAN IS A
WOMANIZER
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1. He is a smooth talker. He will always
defend a girl whether the girl is right or
wrong.
2. He wakes up very early,
cleans his room, sprays room
with air freshener only
on days a girl is visiting.
3. He carrys condoms in his
wallet always........
4. He wears his best shirt on
days he is visiting a new
catch.
5. You see him in fast
foods,cinemas, often not
that he has money, but he
likes to give ladies that
impression.
6. He usually tells his male
friends he has no money,
but if a girl comes around,
money appears from
nowhere.
7. In order to impress a girl,
he is ready to borrow
anything he doesn't own
and pose with it, even if it be
boxers.
8. 95% of his friends
are females. And his phone,
female contacts 95%
9. He will give a girl his
transport fare and trek home
KNOW HOW IT FEELS…
According to what I have gone through in
my past love relationships, Love isn’t an
easy game! My past relationships were
both good and bad. But they taught me
oodles concerning love. They gave me a
lesson. I can’t say that I was only a good
guy in my past relationships, No. I also
used to be a bad guy & I have also ever
been a heart breaker. I have ever been
loved that much. I have ever been hurt to
the fullest. I have also ever cried for
someone just like any other person out
there. I know how it feels to be loved
that much. I know how it feels when
you’re heartbroken; I know how it feels
when someone just wakes up and starts
to change and eventually dumps you with
no good reason. I know how it feels when
you’re addicted to someone you love. I
know how hard it is to quickly let go of
someone that you truly loved with all
your heart, I know how it feels to love
someone when he or she taking you as an
option. I know how it feels to be cheated
on. I know how it feels to care for
someone who doesn’t appreciate…
But all what I can tell you my friends,
LOVE is not an easy game. It needs when
one is so PATIENT, COMMITTED,
UNDERSTANDING, LOYAL, TRUSTWORTHY,
FORGIVING, CARING, APPRECIATIVE,
HONEST, GOD FEARING AND WITH A
RICH HEART. So if you have got someone
who is at least 50% of that, then love and
care about him or her. Do whatever it
takes for both of you to last forever
because such people are very rare to find
these days. Never let them go over minor
issues that can be resolved. Love them
genuinely just like the way they are. Be
proud of them.
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Nothing in this world is gained for free,
Even if you want to win someone’s heart
or someone to love you, you have to do
something. You have to be hard-working.
You have to sacrifice something. You have
to give in your attention. You have to put
in some energy. You have to give in your
time. You have to be determined. You
have to chase with hope that you will be
a WINNER at the end. You have to be
patient enough; remember patience pays
though it… you have to be ready to face
all the consequences...Never get into any
competition of something if you already
have those "discouraging thoughts" in you
that you won’t reach the finishing point.
Always be with HOPE. Remember a man
who has no hope has no wings. So be
with wings and God will help you succeed
in everything no matter there's a stiff
competition. Always try your best in
everything you’re chasing and leave the
rest to God to deal with it
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No girl likes to start over with a new guy.
Getting to know a guy all over again.
Learning how to feel confortable with a
guy all over again. Giving herself mind,
body, and soul to a guy again. Going
through that awkward phase of being body
shy around a guy again. Sharing her
secrets and spilling out her thoughts and
emotions to a guy again. Meeting a new
guy's family and getting to know them all
over again. Have a new guy meet her
parents hoping they'll be accepting all
over again. Opening up and letting a new
guy see the real side of her all over again.
Fight through her trust issues and place
her trust in another man again. Work on
her insecurites so they won't push a guy
away all over again. Give her heart to
another guy and learn to love someone
new all over again. That's why girls love
to stick with the guys they're already
with, no matter how bad it is, because it's
the guys they've been through all that
with already.
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Help this man.
I am 27. Last year, I fell in love with a
beautiful lady. We stayed together until
this year in March when she told me she’s
pregnant with my child. I made
arrangements with my family for a show-
up at her home. In August during the
pre-natal clinic visits, I went with her and
the tests included a HIV/Aids test. The
results came back negative for me and
positive for her. She’s almost giving birth
now. I don’t know if I should push on
with plans to make her my wife or break
up with her because I am still young. I
need more children and a happy family.
This discovery is tormenting me. Pleas
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Most girls nowadays don't seek for
relationships
anymore, but can
you blame them? The reason why they
are the way they
are, is
because they had that one guy who really
fucked their
head up.
They went through that one fucked up
relationship
that changed
their perspective on guys. They all got
attached to that
one guy who
fucked them over, which made them
think if they get
attached to
any other guy, they'll get fucked over
again. That's why
girls come
off as bitches. That's why girls end the
"talking" before
it goes any
further. That's why it's hard for girls to
really open up
nowadays.
Learn to find the "game changer" - Part 1
I will not go into a business unless I can
see a "game changer"; something that we
are going to do that is different from what
others are doing. Let me give you an
example; when we launched our
operation in Zimbabwe in July 1998 it was
almost two years after our two
competitors had started their operations.
It had never happened anywhere in the
world that a third entrant into the market
had overtaken such well-established
competitors, let alone in less than two
months!
Those who know me will tell you that I
spend time every day just reading and
catching up on what is going on in my
industry. Even when I read a newspaper,
I do so with a pen in my hand; marking
things and following up for more
information. " My people, perish for lack
of knowledge": In business, if you are not
informed, you will perish.
Several years before I launched the
networks in Botswana and Zimbabwe (our
first two networks), I had come across an
extraordinary new billing system from a
company in Israel. This system, allowed
an operator to charge a customer whilst
they were talking rather than afterwards;
this was completely revolutionary at the
time. It was called "pre-paid", and it was
to completely revolutionise, the world of
telecommunications; that was the "game
changer"!
And yet very few people in the industry
at the time seemed to take any notice of
what that small company was doing,
including the big international companies
like Vodafone in the UK.
I put a team onto it and we worked
quietly and methodically studying what
they were doing. We locked up
agreements with them, and ordered the
equipment and our licenses were issued.
That was the birth of our product called
"Buddie- Prepaid". It allowed us to
provide service to millions of ordinary
people who would otherwise not have got
service. The rest is history as they say.
The principle I have laid out here applies
whether you are running a business, or
you are a professional working in a
company, if you want your organisation to
prosper you must find the "game
changer". Sometimes it comes through a
single Big Bang product like Buddie, but
most of the time it is incremental through
a culture of constantly doing small things
here and there that are innovative...
Here is my challenge to you, today:
I want you to look around at the job you
do or the business you run and draw up a
list of what you have done differently that
gives your organisation a competitive
edge. If there is nothing you have done in
the last month, then you are threatening
the future prosperity of your
organisation.
Dear girls,
There's always gonna be a prettier girl
than you and you see the guy you like
attracted to another girl who has features
you don't have. That makes you feel ugly,
so you try to make yourself be something
you're not. Come on, don't ever be a
clone of another girl just to impress a guy.
That just means you're trying to attract a
guy who isn't really for you. You're
beautiful, everything about you is
beautiful. What you are and what you
aren't. It's all beautiful.
Sincerely, a guy.
If it is just a big misunderstanding, then
fight for your relationship. You are happy
in every area. You laugh together, you
pray together, you enjoy one another.
There was a big misunderstanding.
They took what you said the wrong way
and because of their past hurts, they now
feel you don't care anymore.
Misunderstandings can destroy any
healthy relationship but it doesn't have to
be that way. Misunderstandings can and
should be worked out. It just takes 2
people who are both willing to put
everything out on the table and talk it
out. Fight for your relationship if it means
that much to you.
Don’t let that beautiful girl or handsome
dude go out of your life if you truly love
him/her.
The holiday season is the time when
many people dig financial graves in which
their life will fall. Countless people spend
more than they earn. The financial
decisions you make this holiday season
will impact your life in the coming year.
Don't be deceived by the Holiday
spending fever. Celebrate but do it
sensibly knowing that there is life after
the holidays. Don't just buy things
because they're on sale. If you didn't plan
for it simply don't buy it. Use the extra
income from bonuses to make a head-
start of the New Year. Pay off your debts,
pay tuition or rent in advance or save for
that future project. "The wise man saves
for the future but the foolish man spends
whatever he gets." Proverbs 21:20.
Its much
better the truth, because when say the
truth even if hurts at that moment IT IS
THE TRUTH, and when a person is sincere
with you, you can trust in that one. But
telling a lie for make "happy" someone or
for keeping a relationship it is not good,
because one day it will be discovered and
its the end of everything: trust, love,
relationship..etc. In both cases I will
forgive because am a woman of God, but
now it comes the difference: I forgive if
"you" tell me the truth, even if hurts me
and I can trust you again, but if you tell
me a lie, first or later I discover your lie, I
will forgive you but can not trust you
anymore!!!!!
Every day I have been thinking that being
open to your partner, saying out the
truth, letting them know the deepest,
private and confidential places in your life
and sharing every secret with them
whether it’s good or bad that it
strengthens a relationship. But that’s not
true and I was totally wrong. According to
my experience in love I have come to
realize that SOMETIMES we need to lie
and fake around so that we save our
relationships. Revealing out the truth
sometimes leaves our lovers in pain. It
creates suspicions, hate, mistrust, jealous
and sometimes it results into a
breakdown of a relationship.
So my friends, if you have got someone
that you love so much and you have the
fear of losing him or her, think twice prior
uttering the truth and revealing out all
the secrets in case they ask you. Don’t
fully unmask your heart. Reserve some
things to keep the relationship going on
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Pray for your spouse every day; in the
morning, in the afternoon and at evening.
Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t
wait
until there is an affair. Don’t wait until
something bad happens. Don’t wait until
your spouse is tempted. Shield your
spouse
with prayer and cover your marriage with
the fence of prayer. Don’t let a day pass
without mentioning your spouse in prayer
and bringing up their name to the Lord in
prayer. Pray "Lord, shield by spouse from
temptation and protect his/her heart
from
the attacks of the evil one. Fill my spouse
with your Spirit and let him/her walk in
Your
Holy Presence daily. Amen."
Best lovers in Kenya
The best relationship is when you two can
act like lovers and best friends. When you
have more playful moments than serious
ones, When you can joke around, have
unexpected hugs and random kisses, When
you two give each other that specific stare
and just smile, When you’ll stay up all
night just to settle your arguments and
problems, When you can completely act
yourself and they still love you for who
you are.
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She was ambitious when you first met her.
She told you everything she wanted to
become. She told you how poor her family
is and her dream to make it in life. You
loved her and married her promising her
heaven and earth. She believed and
trusted you. You convinced her to have a
baby first and then go back to school or
pursuing her career. Now she has given
you babies but you still keep her at home.
You go out everyday and come home
calling her useless. She asks for money to
buy her cream only for you to tell her that
her mates are out there making money
while all she knows is how to waste it. You
don't give her money to take care of
herself but you go out there and buy lovely
cars and clothes for yourself. You even
have the gut to give your secretary a
market list for her to go and buy things for
your wife to cook; a big insult to any
woman. Even when you allow her to go to
the market, you make sure there is no coin
left for her to buy a panty for herself. You
go out there and admire all the beautiful
women whose husbands have given
freedom and those whose husbands love
spending on. You even lift their skirts to
see their panties and then you begin to
feel that your own wife at home is dirty.
Sir, she is not dirty; she is only wearing the
rags you give her. At every slightest thing,
you remind her how poor her people are
and how her father couldn't send her to
school. Several times have you shattered
her already broken spirit with your words.
Oga, you knew that her family is poor and
yet you walked into that humble family to
pick a wife. Are you telling me your reason
for marrying her is to make her poorer?
You even stopped her from inviting her
parents to your house all because you
think you are god. If after you married that
poor girl, her family does not move to a
higher level because of you, know that God
is not happy with you. You may not even
know if you are prospering because of her
presence in your life. Several times has
she talked to you reminding you of your
promise to her and all you do is shout at
her. You call her useless and yet you don't
want to give her the opportunity to prove
to you that she is not useless. You stopped
her from acquiring the certificate she so
dreamed of. You force her, against her own
wish, to be a full time housewife. You go
through magazines admiring great women
and wishing to have one like them
forgetting that a man like you is
somewhere giving them the support and
strength to soar. You love good things on
women but can't stand seeing them on
your own wife. Don't you think you are a
wicked man?
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What do real men want from a lady? A real man
goes for a real woman, not a fake one. And
a man who is ready for marriage, looks for
a single and decent lady, not a Drama
Queen on Facebook, who is suffering from
commitment phobia. Whether you like it
or not, social networking has had more
negative than positive effects on our girls.
It has destroyed many relationships cos
some girls can't stay off bbm, WhatsApp,
2go, etc, to attend to their man. Their first
"home" is bbm, followed by WhatsApp,
then Facebook, etc, with more than a
thousand friends on their list. They have
literally been cut off from reality, focusing
on life on the various social media and
chatting and flirting with a thousand guys.
Yet, when they fail to find true love, they
scream: " Men are heartless... Love
sucks... I'll never love again" etc. Wake up
and face reality; stop looking for love in
the wrong places. Recreate yourself and be
what you want in a man.
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Ladies ladies,This is what you have to know
1. Never depend on your boyfriend like
he is your father, show him that before he
met you, you are comfortable and
without him you can still be comfortable.
2. Do not detest a man because he is not
rich. Rather remember that, he who is
rich today, he may not be rich tomorrow
and he who is poor may not be poor
forever, Richness is like a table fan, it
Rotates.
3. Never you say real men doesn't come
to you when all about you is fake, dress
code, lifestyle, your name, background
etc.
4. Don't say men are just after your body
when you show off all your body parts.
The way you dress is the way people
address you.
5. Do not say you have dated him for
years yet he doesn't want to move the
relationship to the next level, my sister
every relationship must not end in
marriage.
6. Do not say all men are the same due
to a heartbreak, remember even the bible
said: as our facial aspect differs same
goes to our characters and lifestyles.
7. Do not hate relationship because of
past experience, rather know that every
relationship is a lesson and I tell you,
never you close your eyes because of the
bad things you have seen because you
will never know when the good one
passes by if your eyes are close, don't
give up on love.
8. Do not be in a hurry to marry because
as God knows your birthday same goes to
your death day, he knows all our profile
because we are only like pencils in the
hand of the creator, when your time
comes it will happen just like death.
9. You say guys are not serious with you,
when the background of your pictures are
always in a hotel room, Joints and inside
different cars when you’re not a
mechanic, on Facebook you have more
than 4353 friends, you are on bbm with
over 1000 bbm contacts, you’re on 2go
with more than 2000friends not to talk of
Badoo. Whatsapp, Eskimi, and many
more. Which means you are emotionally
confused.
10. Always know that things happens the
way God wants it.
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Ladies ladies,This is what you have to know
1. Never depend on your boyfriend like
he is your father, show him that before he
met you, you are comfortable and
without him you can still be comfortable.
2. Do not detest a man because he is not
rich. Rather remember that, he who is
rich today, he may not be rich tomorrow
and he who is poor may not be poor
forever, Richness is like a table fan, it
Rotates.
3. Never you say real men doesn't come
to you when all about you is fake, dress
code, lifestyle, your name, background
etc.
4. Don't say men are just after your body
when you show off all your body parts.
The way you dress is the way people
address you.
5. Do not say you have dated him for
years yet he doesn't want to move the
relationship to the next level, my sister
every relationship must not end in
marriage.
6. Do not say all men are the same due
to a heartbreak, remember even the bible
said: as our facial aspect differs same
goes to our characters and lifestyles.
7. Do not hate relationship because of
past experience, rather know that every
relationship is a lesson and I tell you,
never you close your eyes because of the
bad things you have seen because you
will never know when the good one
passes by if your eyes are close, don't
give up on love.
8. Do not be in a hurry to marry because
as God knows your birthday same goes to
your death day, he knows all our profile
because we are only like pencils in the
hand of the creator, when your time
comes it will happen just like death.
9. You say guys are not serious with you,
when the background of your pictures are
always in a hotel room, Joints and inside
different cars when you’re not a
mechanic, on Facebook you have more
than 4353 friends, you are on bbm with
over 1000 bbm contacts, you’re on 2go
with more than 2000friends not to talk of
Badoo. Whatsapp, Eskimi, and many
more. Which means you are emotionally
confused.
10. Always know that things happens the
way God wants it.
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Ladies ladies,This is what you have to know
1. Never depend on your boyfriend like
he is your father, show him that before he
met you, you are comfortable and
without him you can still be comfortable.
2. Do not detest a man because he is not
rich. Rather remember that, he who is
rich today, he may not be rich tomorrow
and he who is poor may not be poor
forever, Richness is like a table fan, it
Rotates.
3. Never you say real men doesn't come
to you when all about you is fake, dress
code, lifestyle, your name, background
etc.
4. Don't say men are just after your body
when you show off all your body parts.
The way you dress is the way people
address you.
5. Do not say you have dated him for
years yet he doesn't want to move the
relationship to the next level, my sister
every relationship must not end in
marriage.
6. Do not say all men are the same due
to a heartbreak, remember even the bible
said: as our facial aspect differs same
goes to our characters and lifestyles.
7. Do not hate relationship because of
past experience, rather know that every
relationship is a lesson and I tell you,
never you close your eyes because of the
bad things you have seen because you
will never know when the good one
passes by if your eyes are close, don't
give up on love.
8. Do not be in a hurry to marry because
as God knows your birthday same goes to
your death day, he knows all our profile
because we are only like pencils in the
hand of the creator, when your time
comes it will happen just like death.
9. You say guys are not serious with you,
when the background of your pictures are
always in a hotel room, Joints and inside
different cars when you’re not a
mechanic, on Facebook you have more
than 4353 friends, you are on bbm with
over 1000 bbm contacts, you’re on 2go
with more than 2000friends not to talk of
Badoo. Whatsapp, Eskimi, and many
more. Which means you are emotionally
confused.
10. Always know that things happens the
way God wants it.
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